Why are you allowing him to dictate what you have to accept?
You need the poly. Like you need air. You NEED it. He is refusing. Really? He is *refusing* after he has destroyed your trust over and over?
You need to find your bitch boots. As long as you allow him to refuse your demands for R,you won't move forward and he will think it's ok to tell you what to do and how to do it.
Tell him no poly,no R.
Oh..and we have a few members who have worked with people who administer polygraphs. They ARE actually quite accurate. The reason they're not allowed in court,IIRC,is because it is very easy for a sociopath to pass a poly. They lie very well,and so often,that they have convinced themselves of their lies. But the average person can not pass if they are lying. BS(me)42
M: June 2001
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.