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User Topic: Wanna solve life's questions? Ride a slide.
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As some of you know, DS4 has been crushing on a 17 year old for over a year. We'll call her E.

My brother's girlfriend is in town for the week. We'll call her H. DS knew she was coming to town, was super excited, wanted to see her as soon as she got in, insists on sitting next to her, you get the idea.

Yesterday while we were at the park, me, H, and my sister were sitting on a bench. DS informed my sister that she needed to move so he could sit by H.

I asked DS, "Babe, what about E? Isn't she your girlfriend?" He got a funny look on his face and walked away. I called him back over to me and asked the question again. "What about E? Isn't she your girlfriend?"

He stared at me for a second and replied, "Mom. Listen. I'm going to go down the slide. And when I do, I'm going to figure out which is which. I'm gonna figure out which one I like. Ok?" then he ran off.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh if life's mysteries were just that easy to solve!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2213 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess I'm going to stay confused because it is hot and sunny and I don't want to burn my butt.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1722 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My DS has always had a thing for older women as well. When he was 4 he told his 40 something babysitter that he was going to marry her, he had already discussed it with her husband who said it was ok with him. He had even decided that I would buy her a ring...


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Oh gotta see if Belle or Xena can take the dogs out after work. I need to go to the park!


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need to go to the park!
No kidding eh? Wish it was that easy. Well...Guess it is when you're 4.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a lot more fun than OLD.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, but what did he decide?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No wonder I can't seem to make a decision anymore. I haven't been down a slide in years.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3421 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, but what did he decide?
He got a little sidetracked when we found a creek to swim in.

This morning I sat him down and said I didn't want to hurt his feelings but I thought he should know, H is kinds someone else's girl. He looked me dead in the eyes and said, "Who? Uncle's?"

He sat there for a minute then said, "Well...that's ok. H can still be my friend. And if something happens to E and she doesn't wanna be my girl, I'll find someone new."

I love that kid.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is awesome Aub - Please tell me you are recording or writing this stuff down. He won't believe it when he's older.

My son like the teenage girls when he was a little guy. He even invited a couple to birthday parties, some were sweet enough to attend.

He is 16 now, and he plays the field, gets a girl for a month or two, and moves on. He is handsome as heck, and tall and thin, so he has pretty much can have whoever he likes.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please tell me you are recording or writing this stuff down.
Definitely!


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thankfully none of our kids have ever been overly interested in having a "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" of any age. I hope they take a ride down the slide for other reasons and don't have a crush for a VERY long time


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your Ds4 is a lot deeper than my Ds6. This morning when I dropped them off at daycare I parked behind their Super Duty pickup. He noticed that for the first time, started giggling and said doodie, why does it say doodie on that truck? I said that's because it's a Ford son

(the last part isn't true, but it is funny to the right people )


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

slight t/j My 3-year-old GD hailed her father this a.m. with , "Hey, Mr. Dude!"

The stuff kids say is worth keeping--if only to use against them years later!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7229 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I said that's because it's a Ford son
I called QS and told him. I could almost hear his eyes rolling in his head.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6255 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
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