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User Topic: OW keeps making 'incidental' contact with me, the BW.
RockyMtn
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad you are looking at moving, Nest. I think that's best.

Not to be a downer here, but you're in the early days of R. If/when you move, take care of you, too. Ensure it is a place you can live on your own/alone, should it ever come to that. I've just read too many stories on here of BS getting stuck in a place they hate, have no support, no job opportunities, nothing.


Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.

Posts: 667 | Registered: Oct 2012
jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good that I'm a hemisphere away, I'd kick her kangaroo ass.

Waiter? WAITER?
Ahh, yes,
I'll have the Bunny Boiler...
yes,
well done,
and could I have a side of stalkerish? Thank you.
Oh, could you put my haterade in a to-go cup? With ice?
I'm gonna need it cold.


Posts: 6644 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Find out how to get a restraining order on this bitch. She needs to have boundaries knocked into her head.


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

Posts: 3698 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
Edith
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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Nest!

OW called me and e-mailed me several times after D-day. I refused to engage in any dialogue with such a lowly life form. In your case, OW is making herself a little more difficult to ignore.

Offered to cook dinner for us when my WH took a sick day from work

Here would be your golden opportunity to ignite said dinner in front of OW's house as a ritualistic statement. White gas works very well for this type of message.

E.


Lies are manipulations. Always.

Posts: 387 | Registered: Feb 2013
jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 6644 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
whattheh
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with others about restraining order and involving police help. Its good to get the situation on their radar so they will understand if have to make an emergency call.

I would think that her job might be in jeopardy if she has a legit RO or stalking related charges against her. Wonder if the police would need to inform the school?

You may want to read up on anti stalking laws. One thing I've read is to journal all her nutty actions and save all evidence.

I've read that ex intimate female stalkers can become dangerous.

[This message edited by whattheh at 3:29 PM, August 4th (Sunday)]


BW- mid 50's (me)
fWH-late 50's
M 33 T 35
DD-Early 2013 PA 2010
In R but I have PTSD...

Posts: 563 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
NoMorDeceit
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is nuts!!! OMG!! What does think this is some twisted version of big love or sister wives?? Ugh. You need to be very careful, she is clearly unstable.
Cut your lawn? Bought you groceries?...I would move ASAP. A restraining order is only a piece of paper...I don't think it will stop this depth of crazy.
My heart goes out to you.


FBS, been through the D marathon too.
Many D Days in April 2009
Multiple affairs, LTAs, and many OWs
Reconciled... There is hope! :)


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