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User Topic: Vaginal Discharge on underwear - can it be a sign
hurthusband99
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When my wife was in her 20's she had very little vaginal discharge on her underwear. After we have had 2 children and she is now 39. I have noticed sometimes quite a white stain on her underwear when doing laundry.

I ask as on Monday, she had quite a bit and on Monday it was a day she was short with me when I called and asked if she had time for lunch and she was too busy for me.


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Dawnie
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, that can occur at anytime depending on her time of the month. I wouldnt see that as a sign.


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BW (me) - 41 (now 46)
WH (him) - 43 (now 47)
OW - 23 yr old foreign gold digging whore looking for her American meal ticket
1 14 yr old son (now 19)
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It could easily be PMS related.


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UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would say nope. Women can have discharge for any number of reasons. I would say I have it probably once a month at least.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It could be the start of a yeast infection, bacterial infection, normal monthly discharge, etc...

[This message edited by SI Staff at 11:36 AM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


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Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Actually this IS how I caught my STBXWW on two occasions. Ew.


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cdnmommy
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know how to write this without it being TMI. :)

When I was younger, and supposedly more fertile, I used a pantiliner during the parts of my cycle when I had the most discharge, usually around ovulation. Now, I rarely need to bother with them, though I still have some.

Just a thought. I'm sorry she put you in a position where you have to question these things. :(


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TXwifemom
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a gynecologist. It's normal. Worse with age, worse with kids. Has nothing to do with affair.

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Mauimom1
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is a semen test kit available on line called checkmate. It costs around 50 dollars. It might be worth it for a piece of mind.


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confused615
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It could be normal discharge..it could be semen.

You can send them in and have them analyzed.

Don't confront her again..just send them in.


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FWH 45
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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It can be normal.

I guess the real question is "what's going on that has you suspicious of her?"

Is that it..or are there other red flags?


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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No. It's something that is normal and related to nothing more than being female.

ETA: I should correct myself. It could be semen. But vaginal discharge is normal, and I would not jump to the conclusion that it is anything but.

I'm sorry you've been put in a position to have this even cross your mind.

[This message edited by solus sto at 1:14 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


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cdnmommy
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess the real question is "what's going on that has you suspicious of her?"

His WW recently confessed an EA, and he is not sure she has been truthful, and had a PA earlier in their M.

I will admit when I replied before the semen thing didnt even occur to me. If it is cost effective, why not test?


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1 great kid.
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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahh, I missed the first thread that HH started.

Perhaps time for a keylogger or VAR?


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numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would reiterate what others have said.
(Ahem), from personal experience, (TMI alert) you can have discharge in your underwear after sex from the semen that leaks out of the vagina. You can also have normal vaginal discharge or abnormal (infectious) vaginal discharge. So, it can be a sign that nothing is up all the way to she is having sex with someone else.

(TMI alert again): again, from personal experience, semen has a different smell from normal vaginal discharge and infectious vaginal discharge has yet another smell.

Bacterial vaginosis, a vaginal infection, can be associated with intercourse.

Feel free to PM me with questions.

Sorry that you are going through this.

((((((((hh))))))))


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WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
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Confronted - 4/6/12
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hurthusband99
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, I know its a bit of a TMI topic. Sad I even have to post it.

Many days a month, but not every day, I see on my wife's underwear 1 - 2 one inch white crusty blobs on her underwear.

The reason I posted is other males might have the same issue. My WW had a confirmed EA and I have suspected more - but so far her stories keep matching up... but of course I still don't trust her.


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64fleet
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

man that's a tough one, HH. I noticed similar shit(I do laundry), and mine came up with BV and a UTI also, of course she admits nothing but a kiss even 5 yrs later...


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OnlyMe123
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I started to get that...white discharge. I think it was thrush. Might just get it (a yeast infection) but also might be from an other person. So you are still none the wiser

[This message edited by OnlyMe123 at 6:17 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get a testing kit.

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imarriedmymother
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry my betrayed brother that this infidelity bullshit is so fucked up, you have to hope the white crusty shit on your w's underwear is vaginosis, thrush, or hopefully a yeast infection.................Arrrrrrrrrgggggghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!

[This message edited by imarriedmymother at 1:43 PM, July 18th (Thursday)]


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24 years down the tubes, but at least I lost my man boobs.


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