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User Topic: Wasband Married?
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for my delay in offering you support. There are so many issues to comment on in this current event I am not sure where to start!

So here goes:

This smells like BS on his part. I have never heard of any man wearing an engagement ring. This is a way to create some drama on his part.

Who gets engaged while their child is in intensive treatment? I know most moral, decent people would be concentrating on the well being of their child, not on their romantic life! This engagement could not wait until DD was in a better place?

This is a way to put the focus on how important he is in the whole family drama. Okay I know this sounds weird but as long as he pulls stunts like this the focus (good or bad) will shift to him and his behavior.

It is another opportunity for him to prove how selfish you are to try to interfere with his happiness.

You have no idea what he has told his new victim...oops meant fiance.
You ex, like mine is the king of spinning an amazingly credible story in the short term.

Take care of your children. This will unravel for the NPD jerk.

Take care NIK!


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1665 | Registered: Mar 2004
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the support, rising.

As an update - I talked with the family therapist yesterday. She was, to put it mildly, taken aback by Wasband's actions - particularly by him going public on Facebook a month ago, and not telling the kids. She wholly supports separating the family sessions so that wasband and I are no longer attending together. Thank. Heavens.

I'll have a more detailed update after tomorrow's session where we're laying it on the line with wasband. If you're so inclined, keep DD and DS in your thoughts as they pick their way through this.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping the three of you in my thoughts.

I would have a hard time not lighting Wasband on fire tomorrow, but you are much classier and controlled than I.

(((NIK)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17787 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't go giving my any ideas, Razzie.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))
Hope the session goes well and I'm glad to hear that the therapist sees the situation the same way that you do.

I feel for your son......That wasband of yours is a real shit.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8073 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I volunteer to keep the firemen away if you set him on fire.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I volunteer to keep the firemen away if you set him on fire.

Me too!


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ Stolen from asurvivor

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