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devistatedmom
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What?  Posted: 3:38 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My best friend is getting married. My dd and I are in the wedding, and my ds is also coming. I knew we needed to stay at the resort for 2 nights. I knew it wouldn't be cheap, it is a resort, but...I just called, and it's $90 per person per night. So that's $600, just on sleeping for the two nights. holey crap. I don't know whether to call her and ask her if she knows how much they are charging, or just shut up and suck it up. I was expecting 300-400, but yikes!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

$90 per person?


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's what the lady said. $90 per person, per night. It's cabins, not a hotel


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there a nearby hotel you can stay at for less? Maybe explain the situation to your friend?

Also, have you asked her if the resort is giving any discount for it being a group that is making reservations?

[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:53 PM, July 18th (Thursday)]


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lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's ridiculous! I echo the shopping around sentiment. There's no way I'd spend $600 to spend 2 nights in a cabin...


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are these cabins lined in gold???


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24448 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not sure I really have a choice, being that we are in the wedding party...but you don't think it would upset her if I call her and tell her how much they are charging per night? I'm guessing she must know...but I'm also guessing most people coming are going to be shocked also!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5418 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also...is it sad that I'm "happy" you are all shocked too, and it's not just that I'm unworldly and cheap?


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5418 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't remember if I knew how much the hotel rooms cost for those that stayed overnight. I think you should tell her that it's a little out of your price range and would she mind if you stayed offsite. I'd honestly be appalled that it was costing that much if I was the bride.


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
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lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also...is it sad that I'm "happy" you are all shocked too, and it's not just that I'm unworldly and cheap?


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm shocked beyond shocked... I could handle $90 a night for the room... but not $90 per person.

What else comes with the room?


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24448 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have absolutely no idea what else comes with the room. I'd say that better include all meals...but it's a wedding! We are being fed anyway!

I did call her, and carefully asked if she knew how much they were charging, and she said no, no, no, no....lol I'm going to guess it isn't going to be cheap, but hopefully it will come down some! My dress, my dd's dress, shoes, etc., need to find something for my son to wear since he's not in the party, gift, a non-paid day off from work....this wedding is costing me large!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, July 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not too shocked but I think most hotel prices are ridiculous and look for deals any and everywhere.


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