After 25 years of marriage, 4 kids, running a business with my wife, and pretty much an emotional disconnect for at least 5 years, I started seeking comfort of "providers" or prostitutes on the internet. It started innocently enough - massage, massage with happy, and finally full blown escorts. Well, needless to say, I got caught. You know what hit the fan all over the place, kids in distress, wife horribly hurt, family members detest me, kicked out of business etc. I realize now I have no support network whatsoever! I'm hurting terribly from what I've done and I gone and spoken with my priest and a counselor who are helping me through my spiritual/moral lapses and am pretty much rebuilding much of what I am from the ground up. But the point of my post is - when you lose everyone and everything, how do you go about finding a new support network, short of the online ones, where you can go out and speak with people who are in the similar boat to what you are! Any insights in to my situation would be much appreciated. I'm hurting dearly like everyone else.