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User Topic: Why is it that the BS is always the crazy bitch???
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Angry  Posted: 4:02 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Someone once posted...

"What's the matter Dr. Frankenstein, don't like the monster you created..."

Yes, I am certifiably crazy thanks to your mind games, lies and betrayal. Congratulations.

It's blame shifting at its finest.


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happened to me until I got smart and figured out that h was the lunatic who thought he could pull it off.....

Me too, I questioned my sanity at one point. Like you said when I finally figured it out and figured out who my WH was the veils fell and ALL of the ugly was exposed. I still see my WH this way. Anytime he tries to paint me as cold or unemotional we have to go through the whole timeline of events on when who abandoned who.

BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Boy "crazyblindsided".....ain't that the honest to gosh truth. Same old shit here. We don't get into to many spats about the whole stinking thing any longer (took 9 years ) But when we do he TRIES to bring up my lunacy but then stops himself from saying it. And now that my friend and his is going through the very same thing, it will be interesting to see how he addresses her situation.

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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ahh this thread is just what i needed to see to not feel like i am really a crazy bitch. H and I are not in a good place right now due to the same bad behviours, choices, boundary breaking, and more TT this past weekend, as he sat out on the town doing who knows what, i sat at home with our kids, did i send some texts that probably made me seem crazy? yep...why did i do that? because he demanded i take him back to the abr and then he refused to communicate with me anymore while i was at home. no answer, no texts, nothing. what did he do when he came home, told me i was a crazy bitch, many many times, im acting crazy, texted the neighbors tell her to stop being retarded, really? just like the night i discovered his A, did i act crazy, yep your damn right i did, i walked into my h face in some girls tits, then i watched him text another girl, then as i was freaking out and leaving, he didnt chase me, he went and sat next to yet another did i act crazy, yep i did...and he proceeded to tell me numerous times to get away from him because im being a crazy bitch...and he wonders why i dont feel loved...shall wonders never cease...
thanks ladies good to know im not alone

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