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User Topic: Small Victory as we near 1 yr from d-day
lilflower1000
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After the hell we have been through this past year, things are looking pretty good. Twelve days until the anniversary of our d-day. We went to Waffle house with our four kids and an older couple stopped us on the way out and asked us if all four of the kids were ours or if we were a blended family. The wife was betting that we were a blended family because we seemed to be acting too in love..too much like newlyweds. We said, “nope.. all four are ours together, although he does have an 18 and 17 year old from his first marriage who were not with us at the time. We are nearing our 12th wedding anniversary and we have been together 14 years.
Anyway, just wanted to share a small victory. These people have no idea how much we needed to hear this.
Please take the time to share these types of things with strangers. You never know how you can make someone’s day.

[This message edited by lilflower1000 at 4:58 PM, July 20th (Saturday)]


lilflower1000
Me: 44 BS
Married 12 yrs
4kids(11, 8, 5, 4mos)+ 2 Step kids I love like my own

Posts: 269 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Georgia
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good point. You never know what kind of encouragement your words have in the lives of someone who is struggling.

Glad that you are doing well.


ME: 53 BS
HIM: 60 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 1982 | Registered: Nov 2011
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