Good point. You never know what kind of encouragement your words have in the lives of someone who is struggling.
Glad that you are doing well. ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.