Now if you had a paid membership, and you contacted someone, does it tell you they are unpaid member? I guess what is the point of paying, if you find someone, email them, and you don't know if they can respond (paid) or not (unpaid).
The darkest places in hell are reserved for those who maintain their neutrality in times of moral crisis. - Dante Alighieri
ME - BW - 34
HIM - XWH - 38
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
In my opinion, when you are ready to date, paying for a membership make sense.
Paid OkC gives you the ability to browse invisibly, better match tools, etc. Emails/IM's are included for both. I'm pretty sold on the site, as it seems pretty well done, and the general quality of the ladies I have been interacting with is high.
*edit added the word "day"*
[This message edited by Shockleader at 7:50 PM, July 21st (Sunday)]
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