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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can see how this would make her want him more. I use to be the same way. I'm not proud of it. When you are use to guys responding to you in a certain way and one comes along that doesn't pay any attention to you, you wonder what you are doing wrong. It becomes a challenge. And then to be rejected by that guy once you have his attention is a hit to the ego. She's use to getting her way. I'd bet money that this girl is more jealous of you than you are of her. It took years of therapy to get me to value myself for more than what I look like. I honestly believed that's all I had to offer. It comes from a very dysfunctional and abusive childhood.

Really? I guess I've never had that problem because lots of guys don't notice me I know when she first started working with him, she was showing him her modeling pictures at work. He saw her once outside work, and she took her clothes off and danced naked in front of him and their boss. He claims that after they had sex for first time, he kept trying to leave her to go back to me. And she was threatening to tell me if he didn't have sex with her, and she kept showing up at his house and his dad's house. It's so hard to know what to believe, and what he's trying to say to make me feel better.

You're an attorney, correct? You should know that having someone arrested requires evidence of a crime. As someone who truly was/is stalked by my ex it's recorded following, messages, txts, threats. You don't just point and they cuff.

I know. I pulled the warrant to look at it. It says that he was standing outside her house and refusing to leave, but I know for a fact that he was with me on the date that the warranted stated. The charges were dropped because she failed to show up for the trial. So who knows.

THANK YOU everyone for your support. It really does help just to feel less alone with the feelings.

30 Bgf
Dday: April 2013
Relationship ended: January 2014

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