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User Topic: Stupid piece of shit
peridot
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just need somewhere to vent.

You stupid piece of shit. I wish I had never met you. I wish I never had married you. Hell, I wish there was some way I could still have my kids and you not be their sperm donor. You don't deserve to be called their dad.

Just remember one day you will have to face these kids and explain your actions to them. Just know this, they aren't fooled any longer.

I wish you would drop dead so I don't have to deal with you anymore. I thought once you were out of their lives, you'd be out for good but no, I still have to deal with your sorry fucking no good ass.

It's bad enough you tried to get out of paying CS and SS but you haven't paid a fucking penny of any of the out of pocket expenses. Now the kids have no medical because of your sorry fucking ass.

They have medical issues that need to be treated but now it has to wait until I can get them on state covered insurance all because your a sorry, lazy, piece of shit ass.

Your a sorry excuse of human being. Your nothing more than a sperm donor because a parent would never do the things that you have done to these kids. You'll have to answer for everything you've done one day. Only it won't be me your answering to. It'll be your kids you never gave a damn about.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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chikastuff
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you.

((hugs))


Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on

Posts: 382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: New England
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your anger and hard times, Peridot.

FWIW, I went to the state social services the day after Peckerwood snuck out and within several weeks, DD and I were "emergencied in" to the state program. It meets basic care, but it does include the dentist.

I sent you a PM.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Reality
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's hard to process the amount of rage that comes when you realize that he/she isn't going to be a jerk to just you, but to your children.

Who does that? Ignore or abandon children? Not anyone with empathy. Not anyone that any of us would choose to be in a relationship with, to parent with.

I'm so sorry, Peridot. I was on state insurance for a couple years after my XWH quit his very high paying job. That meant no healthcare, no CS, no nothing. I decided to look at the dropping of each new "tether" of our dependence on him as a hard won victory - whether he chose it or we did.

It was painful and difficult, but reaped increasing benefits for us as time has gone on. Taking away the power - in any context - for him to negatively impact us was imperative.

Vent away. Better here than bashing against the wall of their indifference.

(((Peridot)))


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dmari
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Like what Reality said, Who does that? It's one thing to screw us up but to do that to YOUR OWN CHILDREN!! What is the matter with parents like this??? I am so sorry you are dealing with a complete asswipe. Sending you hugs and support, dmari


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2264 | Registered: Oct 2012
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((peridot)))


I get it.

FTG!!!!!!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
ideservebetter45
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel the exact same way

Posts: 162 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: ideservebetter45
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto!
Word!


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1415 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
npain
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((peridot))))

I could have written most of your post....


S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!

Posts: 512 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((peridot & kids))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((peridot))))


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2524 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
peridot
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was able to get the kids signed up for insurance online. It starts today so I am set if there is any emergencies. Should get their medical cards in a few weeks. Thanks for all support.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4787 | Registered: Feb 2008
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG.

Glad you were able to get them insured so quickly.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
OldCow18
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What you wrote is exactly my not so distant future. I'm so sorry for us all.


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13

Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It starts today
OMG - what a relief!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((peridot))

FTG!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Coraline
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Default  Posted: 2:02 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG. I'm glad you were able to get them on state insurance so quickly.


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:25 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's hard to process the amount of rage that comes when you realize that he/she isn't going to be a jerk to just you, but to your children.

Word. Divorce sure does cure a shit husband problem but unfortunately not a shit father problem.

I'm so glad you sorted something out. I'm also so glad we have national healthcare in Australia!!

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 5:35 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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