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User Topic: SI Makes it on Huffington Post
AnotherTry
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was really impressed with this video/article. I'm glad it was advertised so this wonderful site can help others!!


BS 41
FWH 40 (4reasonsunknown)
M 15 yrs, together 18
D-day 05/08/08
Finished almost a year of MC and WE are healed!! WE survived infidelity only through God's love and grace!!
3 wonderful girls, 14, 13, 8
With God ALL things are possible

Posts: 522 | Registered: May 2008 | From: NC
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And over 400 comments about what a slut I am


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is the link?


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3229 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
wanttogoforward
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's in the divorce section.... anyway those on there bashing your H for staying have never walked a day in any of our shoes! It's so easy before these events happen to us to sit in judgement of what our morals and values tell us to do ... and then it happens to us and we have to face it head on... there are no easy choices in life and I commend anyone who makes the changes necessary in their life to become a better person and spouse... and to go forward and help so many of us is definitely appreciated by all of us here... I guess the moral of the story here is who are we to judge unless we have walked in those shoes?....

Posts: 1178 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still lost
Threnody
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The comments are coming from those who haven't seen a wayward or OW who've shown remorse. It's as simple as that. I think anyone who has seen a wayward make healthy changes would not be wasting time bashing.


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I could give a shit what they think about me...I'm just thrilled SI is getting so much exposure


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YOu mean this idiot is still married to and living with her! Do what I did. Kick her out the door with all her belongs and good riddance of bad rubbish and don't think twice about it.

YEAH BRO YEAH, DUDE, BRO, YEA U TELL THAT INTERNET MAN YOU TELL IT HOW TO BE STRONG AND SHIT


ETA:

Sorry, my capslock isn't stuck, I was typing in snarkasm mode.

[This message edited by StillGoing at 3:13 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7431 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could only make it through two pages of comments. Most of these people are either ignorant about infidelity (and should be praying such pain never happens to them) or WSs trying to cover their tracks by being blustering fools.

I had to laugh at the comment that this wasn't an article...it was an ad for SI. Because MH and DS earn so much from the FREE they provide.

There were a few more that had me SMH over their ridiculousness.

I wish I never needed SI, but I'm glad it existed. Otherwise, I would've been alone in this since '06 and accepted much worse treatment than I have...my experience in '99 is testament to that.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11131 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
stilllovinghim
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@SG


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please don't make me read ALL of the articles trying to find it!! Where is it??

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naivewife
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

link?


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

Posts: 341 | Registered: Feb 2013
20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I reckon if DS wanted a link here she woulda posted it, so I won't. Just go to HP and type "survivinginfidelity" in the search box at the top.

What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1109 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love you DS and they don't know you and most likely scared to check us out. It might make them think they will be struck by the infidelity plage.

You are wonderful and they don't know your whole story. And for the people who called you names and your BS. Well, they are no saints.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.

I didn't even see those. WTF do they think powers their computers that they're using to gossip and judge other people, the distilled essence of tormented gelflings? Dumbasses.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DS - I'm glad you don't care, but it bothers me!


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes I forget that the internetz are full of trolls and a-holes. Then I read a comments section of almost any article, and am reminded why I only post on SI.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1272 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is why SI is the best infidelity forum on the internet...because of all of you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the distilled essence of tormented gelflings?
OMG, SG - you just made my year.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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naivewife
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, the comments are crazy, but I get it. It's amazing what you'll think/say before it happens to you. I guess it's the same way with everything. Childless people are always the experts on child raising too!


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I had time to troll around the internets all day making ridiculous comments about things I know nothing.....

oh, wait, that was me in my 20s.

WTF - I was thinking the same thing after a cnn article today - the comments...Who are these people?

How about DO something with your time.

I'd much rather be creating something or supporting something or helping someone than spending time on a bb for SI but at least my time here is productive and helpful to my sanity.

WHAT purpose do troll commenters have?

Of course I'm not spending any $$ on how my ho-ha looks either - I wonder how many starving people a labiaplasty could feed? It took 40 years of living for me to understand that *I* am weird and no one thinks like I do or if they come close they are weird too but I don't think another 40 years would help me understand wtf some people are thinking/choosing to commit their time/$/energy to.


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