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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 12
slater13
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

About a month after DDAY, I spoke to a friend. He mentioned our lunch together a few weeks prior. I told him I didn't know what he was talking about. To this day there are about 2 weeks I have no memory of. That shit is real.


The choices we make reveal the true nature of our character

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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ever notice how stale pancake batter smells a little bit like sperm?

I never noticed that. Is it fucked up that I will probably make pancakes this weekend and set some batter aside to test that out? If that's an effect that can be reproduced, the comedy value of a pancake gun just increased exponentially. Phrases like "batter up!" could be altered forever.

Dude never mess with the power of Curve!!
That could get some poor woman in a lot of trouble!
Next thing you know her husband would be in the JFO thread complaining that he caught the scent of curve on his woman's vehicle and hand.

This is the kind of self destructive fascination I can't leave alone. If a woman I don't know approaches me I generally do a cartoon kind of exit, but if that shit is that powerful, I want to test that too. Verify that. If I had friends I could spray it on them and go out to a bar or something.

I could load some into the pancake cannon. It would be glorious.

eta:

Seriously...exactly WHAT is in Curve?

I've been trying to find that. So far the ingredients list yield the kind of shit Dwarfs would use to forge some kind of artifact of power. Apparently Liz Claiborne is like, Baba Yaga 2013 or something.

[This message edited by StillGoing at 3:30 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow this thread is on fire.

As far as memory goes, my sucks! It never used to and it drives me crazy. I was always sharp as a tack. I though that it was just getting older in a family with a history of Alzheimer's but maybe it is a residual of the A. During the whole time she was home I was very sharp. she's been gone for over a year now and I still get CRS (can't remember shit) on a regular basis.

ETA; SO co-Q-10 helps memory? I'll have to try some.

You ever notice how stale pancake batter smells a little bit like sperm?

Unfortunately that is now a memory I will not forget. Kinda taints the joy of making pancakes for the kids

[This message edited by gahurts at 3:34 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


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"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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numb&dumb
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah I am never going to look at pancake batter the same way ever again.

FWIW you know what warm Parmesan . . .Naw too easy.


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Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey guys. It's Friday, and I'm just swinging by to deliver some beer. Enjoy.


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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I mean if I go buy a bottle and smell it will I want to have sex with myself?

Yes


I've been trying to find that. So far the ingredients list yield the kind of shit Dwarfs would use to forge some kind of artifact of power. Apparently Liz Claiborne is like, Baba Yaga 2013 or something.

Ok. I'll describe it in a language most of us can understand.
Curve is a magic potion
It adds
+10 to your charisma
+ 5 defense to blame shifting
And allows the user to cast a plus 7 capturing spell:

[This message edited by Betrayed444 at 3:48 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderboy's pic on page 1 got me thinking: the only reason our pets don't eat us is because they can't. If our house cat suddenly got that big, our life expectancy would go down to about 15 seconds. Either from the roof caving in on us once the giant cat grew to Godzilla proportions and burst through the top, or from the cat making a tasty snack out of its formerly beloved master once he realizes that the balance of power has taken a dramatic shift. Think of a few of the T Rex scenes from Jurassic Park.

ETA: B444's pic on the previous post has got me thinking of something else. What was I talking about earlier?

[This message edited by Sal1995 at 3:49 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


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WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You were talking about beer:

Better size, sorry

[This message edited by StillGoing at 4:02 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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thinkingclear
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trying out the pic thing. It sums up how I felt for a long time and what finding SI has done for me.

ETA - Got it right. Yeah me. Thanks. A lot of good the CEE degree did me. It was all Unix back then.

[This message edited by thinkingclear at 4:35 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


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WW - Her
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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trying out the pic thing. It sums up how I felt for a long time and what finding SI has done for me.

Make sure the i isn't capital in img
Sometimes a pic link won't work

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Update: just got off the phone with my wife. Her voice was trembling as she told me that she picked up her cell phone a few minutes ago and found a missed call from the OM. She was shocked because she blocked his number.

She said that she wanted to regain my trust and not keep anything from me, and will not even delete the missed call until I've had a chance to see for myself. I explained that blocks on numbers expire after a certain period and have to be renewed. It then occurred to me that block or not, OM could always call from a different number. Or change his cell #. A friend warned me about that a few months back but I guess it didn't register at the time.

Anyway, she's heading to the Sprint store to get a new phone number.

Just another day in paradise.


Me-45
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DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


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wifehad5
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Red  Posted: 4:18 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fuck it, I'm not waiting for an answer, Mods spank me if you must.

MoreWould, we have guidelines in place for a reason. Wayward is a protected forum so they have a safe place to work on their issues. Just like there's a Betrayed Men's thread where no women are allowed.

If you have a problem with the guidelines, feel free to bring it to a moderator. Continuing the disregard the guidelines will result in your losing your profile.


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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thinkingclear
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sal1995 - BUT she handled it like a champ. Kudos.


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WW - Her
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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey Sal,

That is actually really awesome that she called you right away. A fantastic step.

Now, it might be time for you to have a "talk" with the OM. I don't remember if he is married or not, if he is, you should certainly reach out to the other spouse. I am fucking pissed off at the OM for you right now.

But fucking Kudo's to your wife!


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sal, that sounds like a good thing. Well, you know, like good in the sense that if a dog attacked your crotch and ripped your dick off and it fell in a can of green paint, the docs could reattach it and it would work. But, still green. Like the hulk. Okay not like that at all, but it's good she came to you with that and is getting a new #.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now, it might be time for you to have a "talk" with the OM.

I've been debating this for awhile and am torn for a few reasons. First, right now I don't have a face or a voice for this clown. Mind movies have been present, but not nearly as bad as what most on this site experience from what I've been able to gather. He's kind of a shadowy figure to me right now, and that might be a good thing from a MM standpoint. Second, my anger can scare even me at times. I worry about how I'll take things he might say. Complicating things is the fact this guy is no slouch physically from what I've heard, so he would give me all I could handle and maybe then some if it came to that. If this guy goads me into a confrontation and whips my ass, could I just leave it at that? Or would I return better armed with say, a baseball bat? Quitting is not my forte. Finally, this guy has much less to lose than I do - financially, professionally, and personally. He'd love to sue my ass off or get me arrested, I'm sure. And if he gets sued or arrested? Big deal. He's judgment proof and his blue collar career is not likely to suffer much from an arrest.

Having said all that, I asked my wife for his number a little while ago. She's asking me to not go there, to give her a chance to take care of things first by re-blocking his number and getting her cell number changed. She doesn't want me to suffer any more negative consequences of her bad choices.

That's what my mind says to do. My heart wants a piece of this guy. I don't have to tell any of you how it feels, though.

Thanks for the responses gents.

ETA: Didn't mean to come off like an elitist ass with the blue collar comment, especially since that describes how I was the first 10 years of my working life. My point was that he has trade skills that don't really depend on exemplary behavior. I have a professional license that requires me to report any arrests to the licensing authority for possible discipline. Bottom line, I have less margin for error than POSER. Hope I didn't offend any brothers who do real work for a living.

[This message edited by Sal1995 at 4:53 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


Me-45
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DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


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Later
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree, it sounds like a good thing Sal.

On an unrelated note, I have been pondering the question of whether divorce court would be a good place to troll for newly available women.

ETA, Sal I was talking about your earlier post rather than confronting the guy. Honestly, in your situation I think you should not. Things seem to be going so well.

[This message edited by Later at 4:49 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On an unrelated note, I have been pondering the question of whether divorce court would be a good place to troll for newly available women.

Trust me, it's not.


Sal:
I see what you mean about confronting him, it probably won't end up good. I am guessing he doesn't have a wife? If he does...you gotta let her know.

If you want you could shoot me a pm I have some friends in Texas.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really good choice on your part for showing restraint, Sal. Beating the crap out of him would bring more long term harm on you than him. I can definitely relate, though. I literally had my baseball bat (yeah, that was my weapon of choice, too!) in the car and was ready to roll down to his mom's house and beat the everloving crap out of him. Numb, and some other guys from this site thankfully talked me down. I still have the bat sitting by the door, but I'm going to just leave it there for now.


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Later
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah WB, I am sure it would be awful. Since infidelity plays such a large role in D's I would either find a cheating spouse or a BS just as screwed up as me.

I can't imagine how difficult it would be to plan a date around our combined triggers.

Me: Traveling North or South triggers me.

Her: Damn, I can't go East or West.

[This message edited by Later at 5:00 PM, July 26th (Friday)]


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