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User Topic: My 10,000th post - You Are Going To Be Ok
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice work, Jrazz. And I mean that in the broadest possible way, nice work.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6306 | Registered: Jan 2011
Faithful w/Love
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Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jrazz,
I love the post, you have helped me in so many ways. Your words have lifted me when I was alone at night or feeling lonely in the day.

You are so correct!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2661 | Registered: Aug 2011
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for sharing, not only this post, but your on-going compassion.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4586 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks to each of you too. Your support/friendship has always been uplifting.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16445 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jrazz
♀ Guide
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Got a PM from a friend in WS who suggested I bump.

Hugs to everyone tonight.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16445 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
pregnantandsad
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You write beautifully, and this was just what I needed to read this morning. Thank you.


M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD4 and a newborn
D-Day 7/2013 he didn't want R and moved in with OW
Filing for D

Posts: 155 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
OldCow18
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, I really needed this today.


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13

Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013
ascian
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Member # 40304
Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the post. I found out just a couple days ago and am still pretty tossed about, but seeing this near the top of the JFO forum helps ground me...at least a bit.


Me - BH 39
Her - FWW 36
D-Day: 8/13
Working on R

Posts: 266 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
marion
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The pinnacle of this education, for me, has been the knowledge that our worst fears can come to fruition at any moment, and we can get through it. This betrayal is most certainly on par with any other life tragedy that one may face. Were terrified of betrayal on a whole, and when it hits its just as bad if not worse than we imagined. But then something remarkable happens the world keeps turning. Kids make us laugh. Pets kiss our faces. We perform something artfully, or skillfully and we feel pride in our action. We live and we have the opportunity to live well again.

Thanks so much Jrazz.....
this is so valuable to hear.....
very inspirational whatever situation you are in....

Marion


Posts: 106 | Registered: Oct 2011
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Jrazz. I have come a long way since my early questions, all manifestations of "Will my WW come back to me?"

I have since abandoned that question (at least 75%) and now indeed my question is "Am I going to be OK?"

With the indespensible help of SI, I know the answer to be "Yes."

Thanks to everyone.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1573 | Registered: Dec 2012
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm trying to have faith in what you have written. This is all still very new to me, my husband isn't giving me any reassurance at all, and I'm fairly sure I will die of heart break if he leaves me and the children.

But I'm trying to have faith.


Me: BS 44
Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat
Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
Heading for Divorce
3 kids: 15,17,19

Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart, wait for The Lord.


Posts: 1714 | Registered: Aug 2013
IslandGirl18
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful. Inspiring. Well-written. Thoughtful. Genuine.

Thank you so very much!


me: BS
him: WS

D Day: July 27, 2012
Day of first suspicion: 6/7/11
DD#2: November 2, 2012

Divorced


Posts: 103 | Registered: Sep 2012
forgivingnow
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jrazz
I copied this in July and carry it in my purse to read for inspiration when I need it. Wanted to bump this for new members.


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 597 | Registered: Oct 2011
catatonic
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you,
This is why SI has been so helpful fir me. When you think you are all alone in your feelings. Someone a little further down the road puts you back on track
Thank you JRazz

Posts: 113 | Registered: Sep 2013
pregnantandsad
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are wonderful, thank you!


M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD4 and a newborn
D-Day 7/2013 he didn't want R and moved in with OW
Filing for D

Posts: 155 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
Jrazz
♀ Guide
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm always happy to help. So many have come before me and lifted me up.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16445 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
painfulpast
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy someone found this and moved it to the top, because I was able to see it and read it. Just wonderful!!! BRAVO Jrazz!!


It's so easy to believe someone when they're telling you exactly what you want to hear.....

Posts: 1742 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, painfulpast.


Found this pic today... made me smile and think of y'all.



We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16445 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for sharing your wisdom, your experiences, and yourself. Good job!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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