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My 10,000th post - You Are Going To Be Ok
Beautifully written and absolutely something that gives us newbies hope.
Thanks! It's perfect. I know in the back of my mind I will be stronger than ever before.
Isn't it amazing how sometimes you're led directly to the post you need? I hardly ever read in JFO because the raw emotions are just too much for me to handle at this point in my healing. But today I did, and I found this post.
I really needed to be reminded that I'm going to be OK. I have no idea right now what will become of my M, but I need to stop worrying about that for a bit. I need to find my new path in this life. I might have been broken, but I'm not dead. I'm here, and I will be OK.
Thank you so much, Jrazz!! You're a very strong person, and you give hope to a lot of us out here.
beautifully written!! BUMP!
Thank you, Jrazz. Beautiful.
I'm so glad this is helpful.
Believe me, I have my share of panic moments (days) and weakness. Keeping close to me the thought that the bigger picture is going to be ok, and what I'm experiencing in the moment is temporary, really helps me get that peace back.
Thank u so much...you made me cry, well written. Thanks again
That was an awesome post Jrazz!!!! You're so, so right!!!! I NEVER thought I would feel good again. I literally thought I was going to die of pain in my heart and soul lying on a bed with runny mascara and two little boys by my side.... Now, I know I am happier, stronger, and more confident than ever. Thanks to the help of SI friends (Nature Girl, Aj's mom, Pink Jeep Lady, tushnurse!) I'm so happy to finally be S. It's unbelievable what hell I allowed myself to live in.
[This message edited by libertyrocks at 3:19 PM, March 13th (Thursday)]
I'm trying to take this day by day. You're just hurt and believe that it would have never happen to you.
It's hard when you first find out and it does it get easier but you still relive it from time to time. I'm still in the early stage and I agree it sucks!!
I do not envy anyone in the early stages. Just know that we were all there in one way or another, and the roller coaster does slow down.
This is something that I wouldn't want to wish on my worst enemy. A broken heart is still a broken heart.
Having a good day today. But I'm going to refer back to this when those not so often moments now of not having a good day come upon me!
Thanks for all the help....past, present, and future!
Thank you Jrazz! When I found this site I literally googled how to survive infidelity. I felt like I could die at any moment. The threads I read gave me hope for MY future not my marriage. I am still married sometimes its great and I see a future and others well I take minute by minute. I am so grateful for this post and countless others that you have put up. Thank you for your encouragement and advice. I don't know where I would be without my SI friends. To all who read this you understand me like no one can. You are the thread that has held my sanity together. I am going to keep reading and posting maybe someday I will be able to do for others what you have done for me.
Bumping for justme1264 (and anyone else who needs it.)
Big huge hugs to you all today.
Thank you. I dont need to tell you how much your post has helped me, someone who is in the first few weeks of his deep, dark hole.
Thank you. Some days are so dark that I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. This gives me hope.
Bump for my friends in JFO.
(This is easier than typing it all over again. )