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User Topic: My 10,000th post - You Are Going To Be Ok
Breezy150
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautifully written and absolutely something that gives us newbies hope.


I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.

BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo


Posts: 544 | Registered: Feb 2014
beautytoashes5
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks! It's perfect. I know in the back of my mind I will be stronger than ever before.

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Southern California
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1760 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
My_Name_Is_Alice
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't it amazing how sometimes you're led directly to the post you need? I hardly ever read in JFO because the raw emotions are just too much for me to handle at this point in my healing. But today I did, and I found this post.

I really needed to be reminded that I'm going to be OK. I have no idea right now what will become of my M, but I need to stop worrying about that for a bit. I need to find my new path in this life. I might have been broken, but I'm not dead. I'm here, and I will be OK.

Thank you so much, Jrazz!! You're a very strong person, and you give hope to a lot of us out here.


Me: BW (38)
Him: WH (38) (MyNameIsDoug)
Married in 2004, living together since 2003
1 son, 7 years old
DDay: ONS on 10/23/2010
Oh yeah, life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone.

Posts: 107 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Pittsburgh, PA
4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

beautifully written!! BUMP!


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
veronique12
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, Jrazz. Beautiful.


BW: me (38)
WH: 43
OW: false "friend"
D-Day: 11/29/13 (4 month EA discovered); 12/19/13 (discovered was also PA); TT thru 2/14
Married: 2001; Together for nearly 20 years
2 beautiful young kids

Posts: 568 | Registered: Jan 2014
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad this is helpful.

Believe me, I have my share of panic moments (days) and weakness. Keeping close to me the thought that the bigger picture is going to be ok, and what I'm experiencing in the moment is temporary, really helps me get that peace back.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18265 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Angeles85
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank u so much...you made me cry, well written. Thanks again

Posts: 141 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Los Angeles
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That was an awesome post Jrazz!!!! You're so, so right!!!! I NEVER thought I would feel good again. I literally thought I was going to die of pain in my heart and soul lying on a bed with runny mascara and two little boys by my side.... Now, I know I am happier, stronger, and more confident than ever. Thanks to the help of SI friends (Nature Girl, Aj's mom, Pink Jeep Lady, tushnurse!) I'm so happy to finally be S. It's unbelievable what hell I allowed myself to live in.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 3:19 PM, March 13th (Thursday)]


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
yme32313
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm trying to take this day by day. You're just hurt and believe that it would have never happen to you.
It's hard when you first find out and it does it get easier but you still relive it from time to time. I'm still in the early stage and I agree it sucks!!


Me: 31
H: 55
Dated: Aug. 2003 M: Mar. 2013
Cheated: While dating

Posts: 203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New Mexico
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((yme32313)))

I do not envy anyone in the early stages. Just know that we were all there in one way or another, and the roller coaster does slow down.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18265 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
yme32313
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is something that I wouldn't want to wish on my worst enemy. A broken heart is still a broken heart.


Me: 31
H: 55
Dated: Aug. 2003 M: Mar. 2013
Cheated: While dating

Posts: 203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New Mexico
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Having a good day today. But I'm going to refer back to this when those not so often moments now of not having a good day come upon me!
Thanks for all the help....past, present, and future!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2481 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Flourgirl
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Jrazz! When I found this site I literally googled how to survive infidelity. I felt like I could die at any moment. The threads I read gave me hope for MY future not my marriage. I am still married sometimes its great and I see a future and others well I take minute by minute. I am so grateful for this post and countless others that you have put up. Thank you for your encouragement and advice. I don't know where I would be without my SI friends. To all who read this you understand me like no one can. You are the thread that has held my sanity together. I am going to keep reading and posting maybe someday I will be able to do for others what you have done for me.


BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

Posts: 190 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Kansas City
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18265 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for justme1264 (and anyone else who needs it.)


Big huge hugs to you all today.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18265 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
justme1264
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. I dont need to tell you how much your post has helped me, someone who is in the first few weeks of his deep, dark hole.


Me 30s = BS
Her 20s= WW
She had two affairs between 2012-2014 that are confirmed. DD#1 3/2014. DD#2 11/2014.
Divorcing 11/2014
R? = I am still trying to figure that out.

Posts: 458 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: justme1264
LeftOutintheCold
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. Some days are so dark that I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. This gives me hope.


Me - 42
WH - 40
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Headed towards Divorce

Posts: 332 | Registered: Mar 2014
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LeftOutintheCold)))


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18265 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for my friends in JFO.

(This is easier than typing it all over again. )


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18265 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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