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User Topic: My 10,000th post - You Are Going To Be Ok
thisissogross
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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love." -Friedrich Nietzsche

i edit frequently because i have to


Posts: 241 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: southern us
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8899 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thought about this post this weekend.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
forgivingnow
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, October 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still carry this in my purse....I read this many times when I was not OK, when I was holding on and looking for strength.
Now, today, I AM OK.
I hope this inspires someone else too. Thank you again.


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 624 | Registered: Oct 2011
justme1264
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, October 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this post. This really helps when you are triggering.


"Time" - It's the most despised curse word to a betrayed, and their best friend.

Posts: 553 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
Mac4
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, October 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jrazz - thank you for your thoughtful post

"you realize you are not only solely responsible for your own self-worth and happiness, but that you have the power to control both of these things."

I seem to struggle with learning this point over and over again.


BS me 41
WW 42
Married 11 years
R for now I guess
DD 9 & DS 8
DDay 2 (PA) - March 3rd, 2014
DDay 1 (EA) - July 2nd, 2011

Posts: 123 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Midwest
BlackDiamond
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Default  Posted: 9:42 AM, October 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So needed this today! Thank You Thank You Thank You!!

Posts: 9 | Registered: Sep 2014
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, October 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! I love when this thread does a surprise pop to the surface.

I was talking with some friends this weekend, and we were comparing notes on current "issues."

We all had a smile and a laugh because we no longer have this "OMG - THIS is the END of the WORLD!!" feeling when things happen.

It really does toughen you up. Hugs along the way are nice too, though.

Hugs to you all today!


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, October 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 1:37 AM, October 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1764 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
44years
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Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, October 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great post. At (almost) 64, right now all I see is years of being alone, no one to go out to dinner with, or on vacation with, and it's scary. But if I let him back, then I have years of turmoil with children and constant stress.

What a choice, huh? Your post gives me hope.


Me-64
Him:68
5 kids, 3 grandchildren
Married almost 45 years
DD: October 19, 2014 Unknown number of prostitute visits
No idea what to do

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