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User Topic: Effectively Explaining Bounderies?
Schilling
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lonelygirl10,

I sometimes feel the same way.

Another side thing I am battling with is that I am very intelligent and I've sort of dumb myself down for years, not just with my partner, but with everyone, and in IC he is really making me sort of break out of that and I've realized I am on a totally different level intellectually then my partner.. and a lot of my friends and family too.

I am in such a weird place in my life right now. I feel in such personal chaos.

Jennifer99,
I am super jealous of other couples with stronger and better relationships. My partners brother has a girlfriend who he has been with for a year and they just moved in together and I am floored at how much he loves her and visa versa..

Same thing with another friend of my partners, this guy was a real jerk and I hated him, kicked him out of my house once, but now.. WOW he found this girl and has to ally changed. There is so much love and respect in that relationship.

I feel a lone all the time. My friends.. who I love very much do not understand and simply tell me to leave him.. I understand it comes out of love but that isn't what I need, you know?

I just want to curl up in a hole and cry... I took an entire week off work last week..called in "sick" so I can't take any more time off.

Sometimes I think I subconsciously keep myself busy all the time so I don't have to deal with stuff but I wear myself ragged.


I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: San Francisco
Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My personal chaos is why I haven't made any major decisions about the M.

I used to get jealous of wonder-couples. Now I just observe and learn.


Posts: 556 | Registered: Jun 2013
Schilling
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jennifer99,

Same here. I'm scared I am not in a good place right now to make a huge decision.

My life has been a chain reaction recently, each thing opening and leading to something new.

I'm overwhelmed I think.. in my own way. But I completely compartmentalize my emotions and feelings so I have a hard time figuring out what is going on with me.

Glad i found this website though. It has been good for me. My therapist was impressed with my willingness to open myself up.. but it's a little easier when I am basically anonymous.


I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: San Francisco
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