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User Topic: My dad died.
deathbybetrayal
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry LadyV. I too am parentless. Although nothing really fills that space, I have made it a point reach out to a couple of older people on holidays, etc. One woman, in particular, was very close with my mother and it makes her day when she hears from me.

May your pain soon be replaced with all the wonderful memories.

(((LadyV)))


Married 10 years at DDay
Me: 53 Him: 52 - Desperately trying to unfuck the donkey.
DDay: July 16, 2008
FWH Epiphany: Aug.23, 2008 NC: Aug. 28, 2008

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willow60
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((LadyV))))

I am so sorry for your loss.


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Lady V))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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unfound
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so so sorry LadyV


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Posts: 14847 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are in my prayers


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2587 | Registered: Aug 2012
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry for your loss.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24514 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
dameia
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.

(((LadyV)))


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, honey. I am so very sorry. (((((LadyV))))) Holding you and your family in my thoughts.


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-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Lady V.


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booger bear
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LV)))

Hugs and to you and yours. I'm so sorry I wish I knew what to say.


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing....take care of yourself...eat, sleep, steer clear of excessive alcohol, and let yourself grieve...cry when you need to, talk about him, remember the good times and the bad....HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((LadyV)) I'm so sorry for your loss. There really isn't any advice. You'll always miss him and wish you'd had more time. Try to focus on positive memories. It really helps to be with other people that knew and loved him and reminisce about happy things together. Please remember to take care of yourself during this difficult time. ((LadyV))


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((LadyV))))))

I am so sorry. If you need a IRL hug. I think we are nearby.

More hugs.
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

(((LadyV))))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3235 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry (((ladyV)))

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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LadyV)))

I talk to my mom every day, she has been "gone" since 2010. Still very much alive in my DNA.

Big hugs.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17394 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Lady V, I am so very sorry.


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss.

(((Lady)))


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LadyV)))

So sorry to hear about your loss.


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ExposedNiblet
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss, LadyV.


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


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