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User Topic: My husband is not my soul mate.
million pieces
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://theartinlife.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/my-husband-is-not-my-soul-mate/

More religious than I am, but overall very close to what I believe in a more secular way


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1230 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
Embers2Fire
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for sharing that, it was very thought provoking.


BS - me 49
XWH - him 48
DDay 05/08
Married 25 yrs, 2 sons 28/23
Divorced
2nd Marriage 11/1/13 livng the dream
Thanks to you I'm finally thinking about me, you know in the end the day you left was really my begnning - Kelly Clarkson

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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought she was very young & na´ve. I'll be interested if she's so blythe about choices when some unpleasant ones come along & she can't control which choice is made.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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million pieces
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought she sounded pretty wise. I think she is saying you always have a choice on how to respond to a situation. By saying someone is your soul mate, you take away the choice and as my IC said, "whenever she hears the word soul mate, she know someone is trying to justify something wrong." By just going with a feeling (falling in luv) what do you do when you don't have those feelings anymore?

I know I am sensitive to the term soul mate. My ex found his and he said he had no choice but to follow his heart...

[This message edited by million pieces at 4:47 PM, July 28th (Sunday)]


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1230 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
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