I've been the WW and the BW. I went to my husband in tears and told him how I felt before my brief EA started. I told him I was struggling with my feelings. I felt attracted to the OM and it felt good to spend time with him (He was my instructor while on vacation ) He didn't take me seriously.
I begged him to tell me how he felt about the OW. I even told him I understood what he was going through because I had been there...I know.how hard it is to tell,your spouse that you have feelings for someone else. That I understood why he turned to another woman. Just please tell how he feels. He continues to say he has no feelings for her and that he never did. I don't believe him...at all. I wish he would have felt comfortable enough to share that info with me. It would have made all the difference in the world