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User Topic: Hi From a Long Time Member
Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW, this site looks awesome! I am sure there are a lot of new people on here and first, I am sorry you are here, but secondly, I am glad you came.

I erased my history on why I was here in the first place (2007), but needless to say, my husband cheated on me, we were married 29 years, two boys and it brought me to my knees. I came on this site and was very angry and "poof" I was off this site. I reevaluated my anger asked for forgiveness and was allowed back on!

For those of you who are struggling and really want to make your marriage work and your partner is working with you...stick it out and come in here everyday. This site was a Godsend for me and I am thankful for all of the advice whether I wanted it or not that I was given.

Deeply Scared, you will FOREVER remain in my heart for believing in my intent and allowing me to accept what has happened, move on and heal...Thank you.

It was a very long haul, but we did come out of this better than ever and I never thought that possible. It's a road and long and winding road but if you travel it together, you will finally come home.

I wish you all peace! And am so stoked that I remembered my username and password.

[This message edited by Ibelieveinme at 8:20 PM, July 27th (Saturday)]




Posts: 1835 | Registered: Jul 2006
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1107 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Ibelieveinme
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Member # 11363
Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwa and I get a smile right away! I see things have not changed!




Posts: 1835 | Registered: Jul 2006
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ibelieveinme!!!!!

Oh my gosh...it's so wonderful to see you again!!!! I think about you almost daily and always are hoping you're doing ok

You have know idea the joy you just brought in my heart

Thank you so much for checking in...I've missed you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 192147 | Registered: May 2002
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi!

Awwww, you and DS are going to make me cry!

I'm so glad things are going well for you!


Posts: 10976 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Deeply Scared, I am sitting here with tears in my eyes...very true story! I think about you ALL the time and I swear to God that is the truth.

I giggle when you and I had that PM banter and you pooffed me BUT you made me think and I know you have a very kind heart and you allowed me back to heal.

So, my friend when you think OMG I am so tired and wonder if this really is helping people, guess what? I am living proof that this site saves lives and sanity and I came back to thank you. If you think about this, I came in here in 2006 this is now 2013..where in the hell does time go.

I have sent 4 friends here and one AJSMOM is still active and funny as hell, so paying it forward is a good thing.




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Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just one more thing. Had to do the math. Since I have been here 28,722 people have come to this site to get help and heal..ok minus a few bogus shleps...BUT look what you guys built! AMAZING!

[This message edited by Ibelieveinme at 9:09 PM, July 27th (Saturday)]




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JanetS
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a lovely good news story this is! It's kind of you to come back and offer hope to those who are trying.

Posts: 2484 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have tears in my eyes too...and a HUGE smile just seeing your name again!!!

I can't believe you know AJ!!! I met her this past March when she came to Houston for our St. Patty's Day G2G...she is a sweetheart for sure!!

Oh darling, you have not only made my night but probably the rest of my year!! I just can't believe you stopped in


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 192147 | Registered: May 2002
hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ibelieveinme!! Good to see you and that you're doing so well!


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays - 1 was too many
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohhhhh...and our PM exchange...I remember it well...LOL!!!!

Great things can always come out of talking things out


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Ibim, So glad to hear you are doing well now!


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9623 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, girl.

(Said with Ryan Gosling swagger.)

It's good to "see" you again!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21011 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know hey AJSMOM? Guess I will have to come on here to see how the heck you are doing We really do need to meet and catch up. My most memorable times with you was sitting on "P" Lake and just talking. I miss you.

Oh, and edited to say, when I am on here and see something that "I like" I wanna hit the "like button"

[This message edited by Ibelieveinme at 12:38 PM, July 28th (Sunday)]




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