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User Topic: I read this this morning.....
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^ me too!!

Looking back I wish I had gotten there so much sooner. But better late than never

FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children

"Your secrets keep you sick"

Posts: 1134 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:25 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes the barrier comes as a result of being open with your partner. At the end, the X hated my ability to take charge and my self-sufficiency, even though he deferred almost every decision to me. He loved being a KISA, and I just didn't need to be saved. I know this because he told me.

I don't regret being myself, and I'll never subjugate myself for another person, but I now know that I can't control what other people think of me. As Popeye said, "I yam what I yam."

I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20284 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
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Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel closer (more intimacy) with my WH after he tells me the truth about his horrible choices and his feelings. It's sad that this had to happen but I also feel free now to say exactly who I am and how I feel.

No more stuffing. I'm not afraid of what he will think of me anymore.

Me BW, Him WH
DD 4/12/13
TT until 9/18/14

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