Nothing more can hurt our loved ones, and the pain we feel is over our own loss. That loss will always be there, but in time we learn to accept that the reason we feel that loss is because we had something special. When I think back on everyone that is gone, it hurts, but only because I have happy memories that I would gladly endure the pain to keep.
Sitting here in tears. Grateful ones, because this is exactly right. Thank you aesir.