Topic: 5 years later and we're doing great... hang in there.
Member # 29826
| Posted: 7:58 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013|
MrsDoubtfire! Great post, so happy to see you (both) doing so well. :)
Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs
too many A's to bother to count, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls and he files
The fear of illusion is real
Posts: 1516 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Ingersoll Ontario
Member # 15902
| Posted: 10:38 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013|
Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled
Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
Posts: 5640 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 38288
| Posted: 8:29 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
I really, really needed this post. I'm 6 mo out and think it will never get better. Little things are, but not great enough or fast enough for me. You have made me hopeful for the future.
BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.
Posts: 281 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
Member # 39036
| Posted: 8:35 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
I needed to read this. Thank you for sharing a positive outcome.
Me: BS 36
Him: WS 37
14 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.
Posts: 352 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 30079
| Posted: 9:48 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.
Posts: 1889 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 35215
| Posted: 1:52 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
I loved reading this thread today! So uplifting.
BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended
Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Member # 37154
| Posted: 2:45 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
So happy for you!
We are not as far out, but I too have a much better H, father and person. He's even sweeter to the pets! I'm starting to think the changes will last and relaxing and enjoying it.
We'll see what it's like in 4 years!
Posts: 1728 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
Member # 38839
| Posted: 7:44 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
Thank you for this awesome, insightful post!! :)
Posts: 306 | Registered: Mar 2013
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