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User Topic: 5 years later and we're doing great... hang in there.
StepAside
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MrsDoubtfire! Great post, so happy to see you (both) doing so well. :)


Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs
far too many A's to bother to count, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday April 12/10-Divorcing when he finds some courage
We live in a world where the fear of illusion is real

Posts: 1514 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Ingersoll Ontario
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5637 | Registered: Aug 2007
letitout
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really, really needed this post. I'm 6 mo out and think it will never get better. Little things are, but not great enough or fast enough for me. You have made me hopeful for the future.


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 281 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
NewMom0220
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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I needed to read this. Thank you for sharing a positive outcome.


Me: BS 36
Him: WS 37
14 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.

Posts: 350 | Registered: Apr 2013
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1889 | Registered: Nov 2010
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I loved reading this thread today! So uplifting.


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
catlover50
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you!

We are not as far out, but I too have a much better H, father and person. He's even sweeter to the pets! I'm starting to think the changes will last and relaxing and enjoying it.

We'll see what it's like in 4 years!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
mysticpenguin
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this awesome, insightful post!! :)


Betrayed

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