Topic: 5 years later and we're doing great... hang in there.
Member # 29826
| Posted: 7:58 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013|
MrsDoubtfire! Great post, so happy to see you (both) doing so well. :)
Me BS 47yrs, Him fWS 49yrs
DitchPig -45yrs Shrek in drag.
Last Dday April 12/10-in Limbo
We live in a world where the fear of illusion is real
Posts: 1500 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: The Cheese Stands Alone
Member # 15902
| Posted: 10:38 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013|
Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 29 years, Happily Reconciled
The moment you get angry while arguing with someone, is the instant you stop striving for the truth and start trying to prove yourself superior.
Posts: 5456 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 38288
| Posted: 8:29 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
I really, really needed this post. I'm 6 mo out and think it will never get better. Little things are, but not great enough or fast enough for me. You have made me hopeful for the future.
BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.
Posts: 264 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
Member # 39036
| Posted: 8:35 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
I needed to read this. Thank you for sharing a positive outcome.
Me: BS 36
Him: WS 36
9 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!!
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.
Posts: 277 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 30079
| Posted: 9:48 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
DS-10 yrs, greatest thing in the world
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)
Lord Make me an instrument of your peace.
Posts: 1523 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 35215
| Posted: 1:52 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
I loved reading this thread today! So uplifting.
BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 17 years, Married 11
It's simple...Never lie to someone who trusts you, and never trust someone who lies to you.
Posts: 2173 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Member # 37154
| Posted: 2:45 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
So happy for you!
We are not as far out, but I too have a much better H, father and person. He's even sweeter to the pets! I'm starting to think the changes will last and relaxing and enjoying it.
We'll see what it's like in 4 years!
Posts: 1401 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
Member # 38839
| Posted: 7:44 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013|
Thank you for this awesome, insightful post!! :)
Posts: 296 | Registered: Mar 2013
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