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User Topic: Having a rough day.
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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really sorry to hear that, Myname - but I'm glad it's not the worst it has been.

Any chance you can ramp up the IC for a little bit? Have AD's been broached at all? I'm not trying to push, I just wasn't sure what your IC's take on that was.

Sending hugs.

Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Default  Posted: 5:45 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IC hasn't said anything about AD's, which I'm almost surprised at. She isn't freaking out and overreacting about the cutting issue. It's something that I'm able to control most of the time. We don't talk a ton about the cutting. She says it's a symptom of a bigger problem and the best approach is to work on the bigger problem first and if the cutting is still an issue then work on that.

Right now I'm going to IC every 2 weeks. I really can't afford to go much more than that right now. If I do go more often then the winter would be the best time. Winter is by far the hardest time of the year for me.

DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

Posts: 3066 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
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Default  Posted: 6:01 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Myname, your posts made me so sad. Sad to see someone in such pain and sad that I can't offer you anything to help.

I don't understand the urge to cut, I have never had it, so I can't make any suggestions. I wish I could help.

Just know that even though I have never met you or talked to you, you are in my thoughts. If I could send strength and peace your way I would.

BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

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