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User Topic: Going to Sporting Events Alone?
hurtbs
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Question  Posted: 9:27 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I live in Miami now and root for west coast teams. I want to go and see the Giants when they play the Marlins. I am having trouble finding someone who would come with me (tickets are pretty cheap). I'm thinking of just paying a higher price for a single, premium ticket and going to the game solo. But I don't know... is that weird?
I will go to art walks and movies alone, went to a happy hour alone, but not sure how I feel about a sporting event. Thoughts?


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TrustNoOne
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I say GO FOR IT!

Look at it as though you're watching the game from your living room - with 50,000 like-minded friends


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phmh
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do it! I'd rather go alone because then I can keep score instead of having to chat :)


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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go for it! I will be going to a concert by myself


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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As long as you have a can of mace or something so the drunken idiots you're sitting next to don't follow you out to the parking lot & cause trouble...


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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I go everywhere alone and I think a sporting event is the perfect place! It's conducive to talking to your neighbors (along with some good natured ribbing of the home team if you're so inclined... )


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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think a sporting event would be far easier to go to alone than a happy hour, and you've already done that. With a sporting event there is constant entertainment, and it's easy to chat to people around you. If you enjoy the sport, you will have a blast!


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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 6:29 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I go to hockey games by myself all the time. I actually find that less awkward than some other solo stuff...


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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm thinking of just paying a higher price for a single, premium ticket

Oh, good Lord, don't do that! It's the Marlins for Pete's sake!

Get a ticket that gets you into the bottom bowl of the stadium and trust me, after about 3.5 innings, you'll be able to find a seat anywhere.

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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I see no harm in going alone, but I also recommend you check out some team forums. Iíve met some cool people through hockey forums, and they frequently get together for games, or share unused tickets.

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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AJ's mom - they police the better seats to force you to pay for them.


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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be going to a Pirates game on Friday night all by myself.

My employer has a pair of tickets, and I got this game as a pat on the butt.

I'm going, and it will be a blast! I don't have to share my nachos with anyone!!


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