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User Topic: He wants to take a break...
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I say give him what he wants. Walk away. No texting, No calling...No facebooking. Walk away, if he really wants you he will come back.

Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just thought I'd let y'all know there are no updates on this really. I have backed off. We still talk- he initiates- but I'm distancing myself. I just don't think this is going to work out for me. I don't think this is the kind of relationship I want. Thanks for all your replies and advice!

Me (BS)- 36
Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you Survivor. I think if he wants a break he should leave you alone, don't let him keep you on a string. What a bore. He doesn't sound like a fun partner. If you are only 2 months in to your exclusive connection it should be more fun and light. If he is stressed then why isn't being with you a great de-stressor for him? Something is clearly not right and I can't image this feels good to you. I think you can do a lot better.

BS, now age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

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