I haven't dated since WXH. I don't have time or opportunity. But I didn't date when I was young, either. I "went out" with one guy before I met WXH. WXH and I were friends, who became "more". That can happen easily in your 20s, when most people aren't married yet.
Now, nearing 40, this scenario doesn't happen as readily. And especially not when I need childcare every single time I leave the house alone. *sigh*
I have no answer, but I don't want to date a bunch of people. I just don't. It's not my style. But I do want a relationship/marriage again someday.
For now, I just focus on me and the kids.