WH said the other night "I should never have started seeing that other woman and made such a mess of everything. What I should have done was ask you what the hell was wrong with you instead of going outside the marriage."
He was referring to my "issues" that apparently involved pushing him away, not giving him enough sex, etc over the years.
So, he is accepting blame...not! He says if he just would have asked me what was wrong with me, all would have been well.
A year later and still blaming me.
Actually its not all that clever, and its almost comical. "Yes, honey. You should have come to me and demanded to know what the eff was wrong with me and why I was such a frigid, boring, bitchy wife. Its your fault for not taking that initiative"
This is insanity.