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User Topic: 17yrs married and gone:-(
strawblond30
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well he is gone and officially has every weekend booked with dates with other women. I'm still hurting why was I never good enough to spend extra money to fix a door in our house or buy me something . I left with nothing but debt & house needs more work then it's worth. While he is debt free & 30 grand in savings. Makes almost double monthly. I'm way to nice but when will I get to be happy???


Me 39, EX H 40 married 17 years infidelity on both parts . He a serial cheater. I cheated for revenge and ran home to brag. Or make Him mad. He confessed to more affairs after that. We are now divorced living apart . 3 children

Posts: 936 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: illinois
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honey, you are not the one who came up short. You were and are "good enough" - he failed you, not the other way around.

((((strawblond))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nik is right, you didn't fail anything.

I also walked away with less than I could have fought for but there is a life on the other side waiting for you.It may not be a perfect life but it is yours and can be damn good.
Hugs
Gma


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20322 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
ladies_first
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I left with nothing but debt & house needs more work then it's worth. While he is debt free & 30 grand in savings.

Assume nothing! Where are you in your divorce settlement?

That's why mother's facing divorcing are encouraged to "lawyer up". You need someone trained in law to pursue an equitable settlement. With 3 children, there will be child support, correct?


"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

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