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User Topic: a year ago today
seekingtomorrow
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Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

its one year today since this nightmare started. this is the day I found out about 1 of the ow. i then had to endure 3 months of false reconciliation before the rest of the story came out,,,, feeling heavy today,, heavy and tired. have planned a day away from him today,, going to get my hair cut as it is very overdue and having lunch with the only friend who knows.


D-day 1 august 1st 2012
D-day 2 October 31st 2012

Posts: 62 | Registered: Apr 2013
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:45 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seekingtomorrow,

Antiversaries are tough, especially the first one.

I hope you have some peace today. I'm glad you are spending some time on yourself and with a good friend.

Hugs,
AN


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37574 | Registered: Sep 2007
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 5:51 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((seekingtomorrow)))


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1390 | Registered: Dec 2012
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Seekingtomorrow)))


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Aug 2012
seekingtomorrow
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thankyou,,, all in all I hasn't been as bad as I thought it would be, it was a relief to talk freely about it all which I rarely get to do as so few people know and the nice new top and hair cut combated this mornings initial crisis of confidence which has bee an issue since d-day.


D-day 1 august 1st 2012
D-day 2 October 31st 2012

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Yakamishi
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((seekingtomorrow)))

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