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User Topic: I Birthed a Wing Man?
ISPIFFD
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What?  Posted: 9:36 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just to start, I'm not actually upset about this, but still...

My ex found some old photos including one of him holding our son just a couple hours post-birth. Really a wonderful pic of both of them!

He posted it on fb and proceeded to get a slew of comments from current gfs about how sexy is a good-looking man with a cute baby!

Then our son -- the one from the pic who's now almost 26 -- commented that he probably wouldn't make as good a Wingman for ex now as he did then.

I so desperately wanted to jump into the thread, point out who actually did the work of producing that baby and mention that I did not give birth to him just so he could be my husband's Wingman to pick up other women!

I'm mean... really!?


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1874 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Step away from the stupid, sweetie.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25765 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE your son!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Funniest thread title ever!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5861 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Celebrate that your son has integrity. And then celebrate that your life has one less person without integrity in it.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok ok it's funny but..... you've been around long enough to know... we're going to say this...

Stop checking x's FB. It's no good for you.


Posts: 4715 | Registered: Dec 2009
osxgirl
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok - maybe I'm just reading it wrong, but I took what your DS said to be a positive thing.

I read it as DS kind of disapproving of being used that way.

I know you said you aren't upset, but.... I'm just saying, I think your DS's comment was good... sarcasm often doesn't come across as well when it's written, but I would have taken that as a sarcastic comment from your DS. Read it that way and see how it sounds....


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