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User Topic: Michelle Knight
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today this brave woman stood up in court against her captor and torturer. From stories I have heard, he (who does not deserve to have a name) treated her the worst of the 3 girls. He held her the longest. And worse, her family gave up on her. It seemed that no one knew she was missing.

But today was her day. Bravo to her and I wish her great success in her healing.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17684 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
Mommato4
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw this on the news. Very stoic indeed.


Updated 2014:
BS-me 41
XH-doesn't matter
4 kids
Divorced-7/25/08

SO-5 years together-he decided to end it by cheating too


Posts: 1379 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: PNW country
UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 2:31 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very strong and beautiful lady. That scum never defined her.


WW(SA)
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Posts: 6101 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:35 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Her spirit could not be broken.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9824 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
MylarPineapples
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Default  Posted: 3:17 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is a very inspiring woman.


Me: BS, Him: WH, 3 kids
8/08: EA with former neighbor
1/13: EA/Sexting with Coworker #1
6/13: Sexting with Coworker #2

Posts: 116 | Registered: Jun 2013
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 4:42 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh boy this woman pulls at my heart. I don't get the impression she had "family" to come back to as the others did. I think her whole life has been laced with dysfunction and abuse. Someone collected Social Security checks in her name the entire time she was gone . She just blew me away with her statement yesterday and I so very much want the best for her, for all of them. She's going to make it.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's amazing. Truly amazing.


Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As a Clevelander, and this story has hit me on many levels.

All three girls have stayed with me, but Michele's story is the one that has gotten to me the most. One of the things that was reported early on was that Ariel Castro forced the girls to watch the yearly candlelight vigils and the news stories about the searches for Amanda and Gina on television.

This had to be heartwrenching for them, but can you imagine what this was like for Michele? To know that there were no vigils for her? That it was assumed she'd simply disappeared?

I've read that the DeJesus family has taken her in.

I hope and pray that her strength carries her onto great things.

Wolf

Here is a link to the Editoral Cartoon in today's Plain Dealer:
http://www.cleveland.com/darcy/index.ssf/2013/08/castro_horror_storys_happy_end.html


[This message edited by WhiteWolfWinning at 2:44 PM, August 2nd (Friday)]


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
Eranda
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am deeply impressed with this woman in particular. She suffered the most, she was most alone, and she has the most to overcome. And yet she stood there and faced her abuser, and said her peace- with dignity and courage. There are not many who could have endured what she did and come out of it on the other side as strong as she is.

She deserves everything good for the rest of her life.


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Posts: 4228 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: eastern PA
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was amazing. I've seen many victim impact statements over the years, and it takes an incredible amount of courage to speak in court in front of that scumbag. She was strong, clear, and clearly taking her power back. It was touching and absolutely empowering to watch.

I wish all four of them (I'm including the child, because she's a victim too) continued strength, love and growth, as they find their way through rebuilding their lives.

I'm extremely grateful he plead and they avoided a trial, but a monster like him is exactly what the death penalty was created for, though I think the hell he will now live in for the rest of his life is also appropriate.

[This message edited by persevere at 2:47 PM, August 3rd (Saturday)]


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4607 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

but a monster like him is exactly what the death penalty was created for

The death penalty is too easy for a monster like him. He should spend the rest of his life in general population.


Posts: 1734 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If he was in general population it'd be a short life indeed.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
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