Does karma ever come back on the cheater ?
Yes. My FWH's SOW (single other woman) got hit hard by the karma bus. She had the same job for 25 years, and 5 years ago she lost it! She still hasn't found another job.
My FWH got rheumatoid arthritis in the midst of the A, as well as several other health issues.
Do they ever wake up to reality if there actions?
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on if they take the bull by the horns and do the hard work necessary to recover or if they rug sweep, tt (trickle truth) etc.
But they invited us to visit them when we are in FL for our next cruise.
She got the other son to move in away from his Dad. Umm he has no job, no money, a suspended license and just loves to smoke pot all day - on her dimeHe is just waiting to be discovered as a famous rapper.
So she works to jobs to pay for their lifestyle.
Oh and her wonderful BF was arrested for trying to pick up young boys.
I do love the Karma Bus!!!
[This message edited by UndecidedinMA at 7:40 PM, August 2nd (Friday)]
My husband has had Karma hurt and benefit him since his A. It hurt him by having all of the OWs find out about each other, his adult children being furious with him, and some close friends wonder how he could be so despicable. On the flip side, once he began working on himself and started making better choices, Karma improved for him. His relationship with his children improved, his true friends remained friends, while the "fake" friends went to the wayside. The OW he cheated with didn't "know" this new person and left him alone once he made it known that they were all horrible choices that he had made and no longer (and probably never truly did) had real feelings for them. I think his life i so much better now that he has become truthful to himself. We still have a lot of work to do in our R (I am finding it to be a challenge to do as the teachings say, and forgive completely, but that is my struggle to overcome.), but it is getting better everyday.