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User Topic: 8 Years Today...
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on being smoke free.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5327 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

best decision of and for your life

.. helps in the kissing department too!!!

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
click4it
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WAY TO GO DS AND MANGLED!! You are an inspiration to those of us have quit just recently.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job

P.S. I totally get this:

I still love the smell of cigarette smoke and will practically sit in our smoking friends lap when they light up

The only problem is that it makes me crave one


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

Posts: 11586 | Registered: Dec 2009
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I needed this today. I quit on April 15 (no aids, just plain cold turkey) and had a really bad craving today that lasted almost the whole afternoon. I almost bought a pack on my way home but I resisted.

Time to throw another $7.50 in my Italy jar.


Posts: 1756 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow.

Just awesome!

Proud of both of you!!!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Thanks for posting! That is so awesome.


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1134 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
looking forward
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is awesome!
8 years ~ way to go!
Son #1 quit a year and a half ago, but occasionally cheats with an Old Port Colt (cigar?).
Son #2 still smokes, but has cut back.
H and I can't stress enough how much healthier they both would be AND save money!

[This message edited by looking forward at 8:17 AM, August 3rd (Saturday)]


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2855 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
cmego
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is awesome!

My grandmother quit smoking after having smoked for 20+ years. She never "cheated", but kept a crushed up cigarette in a ziplock bag in a drawer. Every now and then she would just sniff the bag.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4187 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
yoyojo
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Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent!!!! This is wonderful to hear. I'm sure you are inspiring others too


Me-BS
H - WS
My beautiful kids, 3 innocent victims 1,4,& 5

Posts: 479 | Registered: Aug 2006
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, awesome DS and MH!!!!

You give me hope...I'm down to one pack a day give or take a few cigs. That money figure is looking soooooo good...and, of course, the health benefits!

PS...did you go 'cold turkey'?


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9771 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! That's a ton of money saved too.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So proud of you guys - it's not easy at all.

(((DS & MH)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17909 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is amazing! Such a hard thing to do, and such an amazing accomplishment. Congrats to you both!!


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1687 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AWESOME!!!

Congratulations to you both and thanks for being an inspiration to so many.


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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful!! Keep it up forever!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4212 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20325 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
aLadypilot
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, congratulations! I can't believe it's been that long. I remember when you started saving, and then that amazing Italy trip. That is soooo impressive and I'm very happy for you both!


Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

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