It is sad that many of us thought is was normal to be ignored or dismissed or in some cases even worse.
I do believe there are good, kind, decent men in the world. Imperfect, but capable of treating us thoughtfully.
We are opening up a small joint savings account tomorrow to save up for a vacation next year. We've never had much money to go any where too far, or to stay more than 2 nights indoors, we usually camp. It's hopeful!