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User Topic: What I really want to do
dameia
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Evil  Posted: 4:01 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today I googled howorker's name. I know, I know, I shouldn't do that, it's not good for healing, on and on.

But, I did it anyway, and what I found is interesting.

Today, I found that she was a bridesmaid in a wedding a few years ago and she is going to be maid-of-honor in her sister's wedding in two weeks.

I want to email the person who got married a few years ago and say, "Hey I hope you aren't leaving HOworker alone with you hubby. She likes to have sex with married men. You should totally ask her about it!"

Then I want to send a little letter to her sister saying. "Some advice on your upcoming wedding...don't be a big whore like your sister is. And pray that your H doesn't meet a skank like her."

Ahh...but it's just a fantasy. As usual I will suck it up and be the bigger person. Take the high road and all that. Although I'll have to make sure I don't drink within the next to weeks, or there is a strong possibility those emails will be sent.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1102 | Registered: Jul 2012
SadFlower
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damela, I also googled the OW recently (against my better judgment) and discovered she's become a deacon in her church and helps distribute communion. You have no idea how badly I was itching to e-mail the pastor and tell her just how unworthy OW is for such a position. Of course, I did not.


Me: BW, age 66
Him: WH, age 64
Married 19 years
In R.

D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA


Posts: 360 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Connecticut
1Faith
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Wink  Posted: 5:49 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Although I'll have to make sure I don't drink within the next to weeks, or there is a strong possibility those emails will be sent

I will buy the first round...


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1103 | Registered: Apr 2013
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have no idea how badly I was itching to e-mail the pastor and tell her just how unworthy OW is for such a position.

SOW in our sitch was very active in her church. I did email her pastor. I have no regrets.


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
dameia
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will buy the first round...

Trust me Faith1 it will go downhill really fast. But at least it will be an entertaining ride!


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


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1Faith
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Evil  Posted: 6:09 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Consequences suck, don't they. The HO-Worker should of thought of all this before she chose to become the HO.


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1103 | Registered: Apr 2013
BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would have e-mailed the pastor. Nothing wrong with that. :)

I sent a copy of former fiance's "home movie" with OW to his parents. Lol


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


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