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User Topic: DS14: "I don't think OW2 knew"
BoardPearl
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW2 is mother to DS14 two younger brothers. OC, who my sons didn't know about until he was 1 year and his baby brother.

In a way I think it's sad that my ex is an excellent manipulator and liar. He is a successful businessman and pushed his way to the top with his personality. I also have known pretty much the whole time that OW2 probably didn't know that he was married.

I lived up here in Europe and he lived in the Middle East, until he was finished with his project. We had agreed on it and I moved home to be with my oldest son who had to attend high school here.

ExWH is known for stretching the truth and deep down his own son knows this. The son who loves his father. This is difficult for me to swallow because I want my sons to have a good father figure and role model.

Just needed to vent.


Posts: 1114 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Europe
Fooled Me Twice
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just wanted you to know you've been heard.

I think deep down all kids in time will know the truth. They make excuses to make it an easier pill to swallow so to speak.

I should know - my dad has been remarried to his last OW going on 30 years now. And I STILL give him a pass on things. The sad part is that after all of this for me I'm starting to see him more and more for who he is too....


ME: BS 33 (now 34)
HIM: WS 33 (now 35)
OW: 22, howorker (now 24)
July 2007: Porn found on computer along with profiles on dating websites.
DDay: January 16, 2012 - suspicious since Dec 2011
Divorced: June 11, 2013

Posts: 209 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Here and There
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((BoardPearl & DS))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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