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User Topic: Marrying young
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Both of us married at 19. I had never been with any other man, he had been with multiple people. We were both in the same marriage but he chose to cheat.

Selfishness and immaturity on his part the whole marriage, I accepted crumbs. For some reason, I thought that was all I deserved. Never again.

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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We married young - I was 18, FWH was 20 - dated for a year before marrying.

FWH's 2 EAs started in his 40s - before IC, he always had poor boundaries and he's a KISA (with women and men - always wanted to fix people) - so it's more FOO issues and poor choices that led him to the As - not our age...

Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,22 mo.& 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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