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User Topic: Antiversary....
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow ( Tuesday) is the 2nd antiversary of FWH confessing to me about his ONS. September is when he fully confessed the length of his EA with the stripper.
You know what, I am ok. I am in Affair season and I am not freaking out, crying, having mind movies or anything like that. I just know tomorrow is the day and I am ok with it.
We do have a MC appointment tomorrow evening and so I will bring it up then, but emotionally I am handling it well. I am so much better then 2 years ago and we are so much better then two years ago thanks to the work we have both done and our MC. Maybe soon I can make the FWH into fwh. Progress is a good thing.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1647 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
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Member # 34671
Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope your 2 year antiversary goes as well as mine did today. Just a touch of sadness and thoughts throughout the day (which happens to some degree every day). My H has been great though...really checking in all day more than usual. He just left to return something from the store and he kissed me...really kissed me with such force and passion...just another one of his ways of checking on me. My thoughts will be with you...sending good ones your way

Me - BS 55
H - WS 57/very remorseful and supportive
Kids 28, 25, 22
D-Day 8-5-11
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

Posts: 318 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the hope. I'm glad you have found some peace.

BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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