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User Topic: he went out last night
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and I was happy for him!! Went with two guys he lifts with - they both actually work with me!

He invited me along. I declined and said let's just try this - we agreed on an hour and 15 minutes. He was home on the dot and all was good.

He saw one of our daughter's friends (a guy) there and took a picture with him and sent it to us.

Wow, we've come a long way.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5283 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great!

Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Knowing
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sent you a picture? With a witness? Oh, he's doing it right!

Congrats to you. Baby steps.


Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
TT: 08/12/12

We are in R.


Posts: 698 | Registered: Oct 2012
musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! It feels so good for that to happen.

Posts: 1109 | Registered: Jan 2013
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good positive steps toward trust.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful!


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful update!

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