Topic: he went out last night
Member # 30314
| Posted: 8:07 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
and I was happy for him!! Went with two guys he lifts with - they both actually work with me!
He invited me along. I declined and said let's just try this - we agreed on an hour and 15 minutes. He was home on the dot and all was good.
He saw one of our daughter's friends (a guy) there and took a picture with him and sent it to us.
Wow, we've come a long way.
his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”
Posts: 5283 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 31094
| Posted: 8:18 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Member # 37044
| Posted: 9:22 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Sent you a picture? With a witness? Oh, he's doing it right!
Congrats to you. Baby steps.
Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
We are in R.
Posts: 698 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 38207
| Posted: 9:30 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Awesome! It feels so good for that to happen.
Posts: 1109 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 30079
| Posted: 12:39 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Good positive steps toward trust.
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.
Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 31240
| Posted: 1:03 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.
Posts: 10383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 35215
| Posted: 1:48 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
That is wonderful!
BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended
Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Member # 31528
| Posted: 2:13 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
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