[This message edited by AStar at 4:48 AM, August 7th (Wednesday)]
**The cruelest lies are often told in silence- Robert Louis Stevenson
I think he needs to get rid of his FB page. Maybe that's unrealistic, when you say he is a public person that makes me think that he has FB related to his career. If he is a public figure, and must have this page, maybe you could be in charge of running it. It would set your mind at ease. If he insists that he needs his own page, then he can create a separate FB profile just for family and mutual friends you agree on.
One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz
D-Day, June 10, 2012
My H gave up his Facebook page, we got a joint one but eventually he just deleted it all. Of course the flirting with OW was all through there.
Finally this is R 8/14/13
"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".
Your gut is telling you something for a reason.
As for fb - my H deleted that immediately after DDay and never opened another one again. Also, in the early stages my H seemed to be doing everything too - i saw no emails, texts, phone calls, etc. - but guess what, my gut was screaming too - and a var proved my gut right.