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Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If he repeats this bullshit in front of your husband you will have another uphill battle. That is my opinion. It seems to me he can only cause harm to you and to your efforts to R. Our mc said a few mild things that caused a load of problems. I think it's imperative that you not only find another psychologist but that you go to the first appointment alone so that you can determine if it feels right.


Do not waste one more minute of your pain with this therapist. Sometimes, it's just not a good fit. IMHO, this one is SO not a good fit.

"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please find another counselor. WOW!!! To tell you that at a certain age you need to put up with what you have. OH MY!!

There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

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Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do not go back to this person! The therapist that we first saw really hurt our chances for R. My H lied about the relationship he had with the OW. He said they were just friends. The therapist said...see...they are only friends, nothing more. Then she tried to teach us how to talk to each other. I did not get the truth for 2 years. It is a wonder that we made it through this bullshit! Next week we will celebrate our 50 th anniversary. Find a new Dr. Good luck!!

Me BS beautiful wonderful woman!!
Him FWS ex jackass
We are recovered.....almost!
Dday July 2010
Married 49 years...50 years Aug 2013

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