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User Topic: Shhhhhh ! I Have a Secret !
gma56
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edited to add: And Susi already knows
She does know but I would love to have that conversation with her. Knowing her, she would be on the phone with CW and saying how proud she of him for fighting to get back to life again. Yep, that is exactly what she would do. And he made a good choice by calling me.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

x100


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3207 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sheesh bout time ... enjoy yourselves ...


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18810 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK - Hot as hell here !!!!!!
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15288 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm thrilled for you!


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1740 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
foxglove
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news! It could not have happened to a more deserving person.

(((gma)))


Me (BS)47
XH (WS)53
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two sons 21 and 23 in college

Posts: 1462 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Northern Michigan
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 1:31 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad to hear that gma!

Squeee!!!!


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
gma56
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Default  Posted: 3:33 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure if this will work for us but definitely we have something special I've never had with anyone else. I don't think anyone has ever known me as well as he does. I know FT never was interested enough to ask or listen but then neither did anyone before FT.
Yes I did miss him in my life. I hope I don't lose it again.
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I missed what happened with this guy and was wondering when there would be an update. Glad to hear it!!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4202 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you gma
You deserve happiness and someone who cares for you. CW taking time to get himself right so he can be the right person with you, that is really caring about you. That is someone super special


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CW taking time to get himself right so he can be the right person with you, that is really caring about you. That is someone super special
He did the hard work for himself and his future but it would be wonderful if I was the one to share the future with him.
He's a good man and a great friend so if that is all we will be, that is pretty special in it's self altho if that is all, I hope I lose what I feel. I don't want to be that woman that loves someone and they don't ever feel the same. Time will tell.

Right now we are both busy trying to get some security. Neither wants to be a burden to the other.It will be SLOW Forward.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad he realized he was missing out on the best thing in his life.

Congratulations, and enjoy!


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very happy for you!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi gma! So happy to see you are in a good place.


It is what it is.

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