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User Topic: Stuck on suspecting a lie
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am glad he says he looked them up. Gently though, please don't let him off the hook until he actually takes the test. Otherwise you will be stuck in my position several years out with no follow through. He will sleep like a baby believing all is well and you will still be wide awake, tormented by the questions. Believe me, it is nothing I would wish on you. A tormented mind ruins all the day to day good times. My life and husband seem perfect now, but bc my questions were never fully answered, it clouds EVERYTHING. I can't just "let it go" and I doubt that you can either, as much as you'd like to.

T/j too: Good to see a post from brandon again.


In R? But how do you know it isn't another pack of lies?

Posts: 451 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: NY
Kalliopeia
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is wasting his time stalking you to see where you post or what you say about him.

If he is anxious about losing you and is biting his nails ( if) his efforts are better put to regaining your trust rather than destroying it more.

All of those lies and screwing with your head. It will only end one way. You gone. The lies have destroyed more in my situation than the initial offense of the affair.


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