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User Topic: Do you think they obsess over us the way we do about them?
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is really limited in ability to think about much other than the next concert or party with her high school friends (she is 40!!!)

^^^LOL. Sounds like the same OW! Pathetic.
I think she does think about me. She MUST wonder why my WH cut things off with her and is trying to win me back AFTER I filed for divorce.
That's got to stick in her craw.
Honestly, I hardly think about her at all. I don't think it was "her" he was cheating with. It was the idea. He affaired down BIG TIME. She looks like a horse and all her friends are high schoolers. She works at the local high school where my kids go and told a bunch of their friends about the affair. Really? Classy.
I have found only 1 person who even somewhat likes/respects her in this small town.
I think in the end she was just needy and lonely enough to give my husband all the attention he craved.
I would imagine at her maturity level that it bothers her knowing it wasn't enough to keep him.
However, if he does end up going back to her if the divorce goes through, he's got a lovely future of her controlling his every move because she will know she was second choice. Hahahaha.
Oh, at one point someone had messed with the locks on her apartment and she immediately thought it was me. My husband was like "MPL would NEVER do anything like that!" (or so he says) But I bet that pissed her off too. Lol. Sorry I can't be as trashy as you OW!
*sigh* it's really not funny.

I cannot be responsible for another's personal growth.
DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13

Posts: 452 | Registered: Jul 2013
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the whole "affairing down" thread helped but talking with fWH about her was so revealing. He even said, "it was a fantasy, there wasn't anything real there"

Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 603 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That married old whore got stolen moments in parking lots with my wh. She got my leftover time and a used penis.

She wasn't worth the truth or him leaving me for her. She got bullshitted by a bullshitter. She got used like a piece of ass and then thrown away. To my friends, family shes a sleazy piece of shit. She has to walk around wondering who knows her dirty secret. Who has seen her dirty pics.

Shes had her "mid life crisis" and is a better person now. Lol

I hope she keeps her legs and mouth closed and stays away from me.

She could fuck my wh..big deal! Apparently he will fuck anything. Doesn't make her any better or special...

I hope every time her girlfriends are gossiping or talking about some skanky cheater deep inside she feels like shit.

I hope her romps with my wh in the 3rd row of her Expedition in some church parking lot make her feel like shit now....her going home to her bh after she gave my wh oral...covered in my wh and his smell. Kissing her kids good night. Crawling in bed with her bh.

Im sure she wants to forget ever sorry ass pathetic moment of what her and my wh did and I hope she cant.

Edit to better articulate my feelings and correct spelling errors.

[This message edited by sunflowergirl30 at 8:26 AM, August 12th (Monday)]

Together 21yrs married 18yrs
2 kids, now 19 & 16
Bw: now 38
Wh: now 37
Mow: now 50
1st D-day EA w/mow our realtor 4-?-2007, 2nd D-day PA w/ same mow 5-29-2010

Posts: 1079 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Pacific Northwest
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To be honest, my WH's OW does not. I can't verify, but honestly, I know she doesn't because when I confronted her (yes, stupid, I know), soon after she deleted his WONDERFUL birthday wishes from her FB, and if she weren't such a lazy cow, she'd have probably deleted his flirty messages to her on twitter. Oh, the JOYS of SOCIAL media.

But no, she threw him under the bus the moment I burst the bubble, and had the nerve to call back and ask if I would be coming to her house. "No because you're not THAT fucking important, cow!"

So, no...after an affair that lasted from 2010 - 2012, she threw him under bus without a second thought and was screwing him and every available dick she could get her lonely, ass hands on. She had plenty of people to stroke her ego; he just became another notch on her belt.

And that's really, really, really fucking sad.

Him (31): Taurus517 (17 mon EA/PA); others
Me (27): 3mo EA/PA (kissed once)
One too many D-days
(Full story: see profile)

Posts: 230 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Atlanta, GA
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah the skank made her twitter public. She has no tweets from the a. Now it's all about how awesome her betrayed bf is. And she is so mean and nasty.

I suppose she really embraced skank after the a. So sad and pathetic she is.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

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