After months of searching, I got a job, one that I really wanted!!!
It's in the town where I live, two blocks from my kids school. The hours are 8-430 m-f and the best part is that the office closes in the summer so I would be laid off and collect unemployment and would be home with my babies.
I am on cloud 9!!!!!! Lame STBX and his stupid family who called DYFS on me AGAIN for no reason can't even touch me because finally I see a light at the end of the tunnel.
I am moving in with my mom and out of this terrible house on the 23rd, I finally have a job that will allow me to pay my bills and create a life for myself but best of all it gives me the freedom and stability to risk pissing off STBX so I can pursue the child and spousal support that I deserve, instead of keeping him nice and happy to throw me scraps. I can finally risk him not giving me money because I can support myself! I can finally get myself a lawyer and go after him like he deserves.
Finally, four months later, I'm starting to feel free instead of abandoned. Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo
Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.