ETA--and he shouldn't be coming at either one of you "hard." That approach might work on a weight loss television show but yours is a delicate situation and there's already plenty of hurt to go around. You really don't need your therapist picking on either one of you--that shouldn't be a part of his job.
[This message edited by meaniemouse at 11:31 PM, August 8th (Thursday)]
Afterwards when my WH a I discussed the session, he took extreme issue with any blame being placed on me.
[This message edited by Brandon808 at 11:44 PM, August 8th (Thursday)]