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User Topic: Well Butter My Butt And Call Me A Biscuit!
ajsmom
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Content  Posted: 10:33 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yesterday was D-SD #1's birthday. A big one too - she turned 30.

I hesitated about texting her birthday greetings as I've not heard from her since Christmas (despite my reaching out) and her sister, D-SD #2, has completely ignored my contact for oh, about 4 years now. Given #1's NC I figured they'd joined forces in ignoring me.

Well, hell must have frozen over a wee bit as she actually acknowledged my message with a delightful message back.

Boomya!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey there Biscuit, so glad you got a pleasant response!


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome, biscuit.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Many times after a divorce stepkids break contact with us stepparents. I hope this was an ice breaker for a future relationship.
Great news for you !
Gma


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

happy news!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome, biscuit... just awesome.


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Biscuit!!!!



But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love that title!!!

Happy for you.


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Biscuit it has been a long time since you came around here. Thanks for the good update.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very happy for you, Ms. Biscuit


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I'm happy to call you a Biscuit, but you're gonna have to take care of the butter yourself....

I can't believe no one else beat me to that.

[This message edited by kernel at 9:16 PM, August 9th (Friday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it Biscuit! You know how much this warms my heart - the fear of not having my DSD in my life was one of my biggest fears after Dday. She may not be mine by blood, but I love that girl.

So I totally get it ajs! So happy for you. It may be sporadic, but appreciate the response nonetheless. ((Hugs))


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yee-haw! Here's some gravy!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
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It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Biscuit !!!!! I hope she continues to keep contact going both ways. P


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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